Numerology for Couples
Numerology uses numbers 1 through 9, each of which is related to certain letters of the alphabet. A= 1, B = 2 and so on, but only with numbers 1 through 9; we reduce to a single digit if there are 2 digits in a number total. Number 10 = 1, etc.
We can simplify it to make it easy for us to determine which numbers (people, places, etc.) are a good match for us, and which ones are not so compatible. You can feel it when you meet a new person: either you like them instantly, or you don’t. That is vibrational, either harmonic or not.
With a Basic Numerology Chart, there are 6 numbers in everyone’s chart, consisting of the name and birth numbers, etc. There is your Soul number, your Intensity number, your Destiny number, etc.
We will deal with the most important two, the Life Path, or what we need in order to be happy in our hearts, and the Attitude Number, how the world sees us and how we see the world.
Life Path match is the most important number for couples. People can operate on the positive or the negative side of their numbers to make things better or make them worse. If challenged or toxic with with someone or some location, we need to learn new ways to communicate to avoid conflicts. One can be a Natural Match, Compatible, or Toxic to other people. More than two toxic numbers makes a relationship WAY TOO much work. More than three Natural Matches or Compatible Numbers usually is a soulmate or twinflame connection, and the relationship is easy.
To can determine your Attitude and Life Path Numbers by using your Date of Birth, and then by matching your numbers to other people in your life, you thereby learn better ways of communicating with them. You can use numerology to find a more harmonic location to live in, even down to the address. If the other person chooses to vibrate at a lower level, then there is not much you can do except agree to disagree, or leave. So now when you meet someone, and you get good vibes or bad vibes, you know it’s really their numbers, and you will notice this more as you learn what vibrations are best for you.
Example: Birthday is January 10, 1985 – 1 + 1 + 0 = 2 Person is a 2 attitude
1 + 1 + 0 + 1 + 9 + 8 + 5 = 25 break down to a single digit always 2 + 5 = 7
Person is a 7 Life Path
So they are a 7 / 2 life path /attitude
Example: House number is 1516
1 + 5 + 1 + 6 = 13
1 + 3 = 4
House has an energy of 4
So now what do the numbers actually mean? Here is what they basically mean:
Attitude Numbers: How you see the world and the world sees you. If you have this Attitude number you are most likely:
1. Competitor; Highly competitive; may have issues with self esteem and will never ask for help.
2. Peace keeper, Mediator
3. Comedian, the Joker
4. List Keeper and Devils Advocate
5. Partier. Life of the party. Playful and fun people
6. Natural Mommy and a Natural Nurturer
7. Internal Seeker. Never quite reaching them
8. Business and Money oriented. Loves to make money and start businesses
9. Natural Leader who can overwork
Life Path Number: What you need to be happy here truly in life regardless of how you appear in Attitude to others and the world:
1. Independent, hard working and self motivated
2. Psychic. Laid back. Low key. Healer. Peacekeeping and only wants peace for all
3. Creative energy. Writer. Musician. Artist. Communicator
4. Natural Teacher and Professor
5. Adventure Seeker. Mr. Fun, Mrs. Freedom
6. Nurturing energy. Mothering all
7. The Number of God. The seeker of big answers
8. Business oriented. The CEO. The executive and money maker
9. The Humanitarian that is here to serve others. The missionary
Harmonic number combinations are as follows:
#1 compatible to 3 5 7 9 – toxic to 4 6 8
#2 compatible to 2 4 6 7 8 – toxic to 5 and 9
#3 compatible to 1 3 5 6 9 – toxic to 4 7 8
#4 compatible to 2 4 6 7 – toxic to 1 3 5 9
#5 compatible to 1 3 7 9 – toxic to 2 4 6
#6 compatible to 2 3 4 9 – toxic to 1 5 7 8
#7 compatible to 2 4 7 – toxic to 3 6 8 9
#8 compatible to 2 4 6 – toxic to 7 8 9
#9 compatible to 5 6 9 1 3 – toxic to 4 7 8
Very few people are the same Attitude Number as they are Life Path. Most of us have duality in our personalities but some of us are what you see is what you get. If you are the same Attitude and same Life Path number, then there is nothing for people to figure out. For those of us with duality, getting to know the real person is not as easy. You can appear to be matched in your Attitude but have different Life Paths and hence maybe different long term goals. You can also be challenged in your Attitude but share the same Life Path so you have the same long terms goals but have to work at communicating.
Hope this helps you get started with number energy and build happier relationships!