Children and divorce
Can you picture being 14 and your dad emailing or texting you hateful disgusting things about your mom,, and then be threatened not to be on their side ?
Well many parents today including my ex use their own children in the process of divorce maybe one of the most selfish and harmful things you can do. Divorce is hard enough much less to add drama by dragging a child into it ,, No child should have to be dragged in the middle of divorce it is bad enough that they have to go back and forth from parent to parent because of our own mistakes.
Don’t be a manipulating parent like my ex it will ruin your child and there future in many ways .Don’t let bitterness and your own hurt mentally and emotionally drain the energy out of your child..
Please keep in mind what they are going threw, if you need to vent or get your frustration out , need to let the anger out.
PLEASE dont use your child as a punching bag or a way to get revenge, pay attention to your actions and words,, HERE’S A FEW TIPS TO GET YOUR FRUSTRATION OUT Write a letter express your feelings out on paper and then throw it out, Find a friend or tell yor therapist. find some one you can trust and let them take the ear beating,,NOT YOUR CHILD Try going to Church and pray ask god to take that anger or bitterness away from you Any of these steps is better then abusing your child.
DONT BE MY EX he was the one who cheated and wanted the divorce but when he relished he messed up and i wouldn’t take him back, some how all that happened was my fault, and i was the bad guy. I know it isnt easy trust me know but let god take care of it give it to him and he will not only give you peace but he will also give you strength to endure the situation I hope this could help some one who is going threw this and open up your eyes and your hearts to forgive and let the lord take over
