As a Gemini I have a very hard time balancing decisions some would say were the most easy and any body with common sense would no.
I am not sure how much my sign has to do with it but i know my sign it self has issues with balance do to the constant back and forth between the two twins, In the type of work I do.
I am often reminded that what works for some might not work for others, So I needed to investigate and find out what would work for me and bring me peace and balance in my life.
My life is always hectic and i needed to find a way to calm the storms that usually outsiders was bringing in, I was having issues separating the mind and the heart, the good from the bad and only because my first instinct is to help others but it was destroying me and my house hold.
If you have some one who is constantly draining you or a situation that your not comfortable in then you need to analyze your surroundings your friends and even some times family and clean house. Having a hectic or unbalanced life can even effect you psychically and emotionally causing all kinds of depression, anxiety and confusion, there is no reason to let others bring you unbalance or confusion in your life. Everyone has there own way of bringing peace or balance into their life’s.
Me personally I found my peace when I gave all my struggles to God, I found peace when I let go of all my enemies and my problems and surrender them in prayer and asked God to remove certain people and things out of my life Like I said everyone has there own way of finding peace or balance.
You might not be a spiritual person But just remember that no one person or situation has control over your life unless you allow it to, If your feeling pulled in any one direction or uneasy about any situation following these steps may help bring balance to your life, 1st. Acknowledge 2nd. Examine And then start making a plan set your self some goals and prepare your self for things to start moveing forward, connect with a friend or pastor some one who can offer positive feed back or advise and I cant promise you perfect but i can promise that you will not only feel things starting to balance out but you will see how the energy around you will be positive and move so much smoother.
Love and light and I pray all gods blessings upon you.